The Listener controls the conversation

Whenever we have a conversation with someone no matter what we say or how we say it they ultimately have control of how the conversation goes.
 
This is based off how they have been brought up, what beliefs they have, past experiences and certain bias opinions they may have.
 
Crazy to think that no matter the way we in vision the conversation in our minds and the message we want to get across it will rarely 100% come across.
We need to learn to understand that no one is in our mind and to not get upset, discouraged or angry over how people see or view us and our words because we never know truly how to communicate with each individual to get anyone to fully understand our message.
 
Next time we leave a conversation with someone let’s try remember how to really think about they way we are talking and who we are talking too. Remember they can’t read your mind and to keep calm knowing the better you break things down, show confidence, control emotion the better your message will come across.
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